Self-centered Thinking

Do you think that everyone is out to get you? Do you think those people are laughing at you? Do you think that everybody’s life is wonderful except yours? Well, think again! Most of the things that piss us off aren’t real… we have imagined them. I will personally guarantee you that the world is not conspiring against you. And that those people either aren’t laughing at you, or they are & it’s because they hate their lives so they focus on yours instead. And that real happiness can only come from unselfishness, so most of what you see isn’t real. The goal for today: get rid of self-centered thinking… & most of my problems will instantly disappear! Have a great day everybody!

Hindsight + Insight + Foresight = Visionary

Everything is easy in hindsight… but what about insight & foresight? We can all look back & clearly see what we should have done instead, but the real key to life is to look back on past mistakes specifically to avoid making the same mistakes here in the present (insight)… knowing that if I take the opposite action, I will get the opposite outcome moving forward (foresight). Example: in the past I was selfish & it made me unhappy; so if I live unselfishly today, happiness will be the guaranteed outcome. The goal for today: learn from the past… so I can live Right in the present… & enjoy a future full of happiness! Have a great day everybody!


“I’m not hurting anybody but myself” was one of my favorite things to say when I wasn’t living Right… but now I know better. Everything we do affects other people… good, bad, or otherwise. I used to avoid family & close friends when I was a screw up because I thought I was sparing them from having to deal with my screw ups. But then it dawned on me that avoiding my loved ones was hurting them too. And more importantly… now I see how my positive actions can have a profound affect on those around me as well. The goal for today: do the best I can, be a part of life, be humble enough to ask for help & selfless enough to give it! We are all in this together! Have a great day everybody!


There is a difference between caring, and worrying. Primarily the difference is that caring is unselfish; and worrying is selfish. Caring can’t cause negative thoughts or feelings because it’s a Pure Positive… it’s ALWAYS for the sake of the other person. Worrying, on the other hand, ALWAYS has something to do with me. I worry when I think “I’m” to blame for something… I worry when “I’m” going to lose or not get something… I worry when “I” may be negatively affected. But I can claim I “care” when I’m genuinely concerned for “your” well-being. The goal for today: worry is a form of fear & caring is a form of Purity… let your heart tell you which is Right! Have a great day everybody!


Life is not the mystery we’ve made it out to be; it is not some sort of unsolvable riddle; and most importantly… we are not just along for the ride. Life is simple & straightforward; full of facts & realities; and we most certainly hold our destiny in our own hands. Most of what I see & hear from people is the false belief that life is happening to us; but the Truth is that we mold our own destiny by our thinking. If I think about fear, dishonesty, selfishness & resentment… life turns negative. If I think about Purity, Honesty, Unselfishness & Love… life turns positive. The goal for today: don’t confuse the hell out of life… just do what I know in my heart is Right! Have a great day everybody!

Love Yourself

I finally found the secret to learning how to love yourself… & it’s pretty simple. The secret ingredient in self-love is altruism… the unselfish concern for the welfare of others. The only time I don’t love myself, is when I don’t care about you. I’ve learned that trying to love myself while not caring about anybody else never works, because it’s selfish. And we have to be careful that we don’t confuse self-love with selfishness. Self-love is a direct result of giving love out freely to others. The goal for today: know that the ONLY way to love myself is to learn to love others! Have a great day everybody!

Surrounded By Trouble

I go out of my way to surround myself with people who are selfish, resentful, dishonest & afraid. 


Because they are the people that need my help. 

It would be selfish of me to throw these troubled souls out of my life so ‘I’ can be at peace. 

Actually… my peace comes from helping them. 

Their trouble can’t affect me if I’m living the Right way & not allowing them to take advantage of me. 

The goal for today: help others become better people… because that’s how we make the world a better place! 

Have a great day everybody!


Why do we lie, cheat & steal; why are we so angry, depressed & anxious; why do we hurt each other? 

Now I know the answer… SELFISHNESS!

I lie, cheat & steal to get what I want; I’m angry, depressed & anxious when I don’t get what I want; & I hurt people because I will do whatever it takes to get what I want. 

And then, like magic, when I stop being selfish, I start getting what I want. 

The goal for today: know that giving freely of myself to others, will get me what I really want… Happiness, Peace & Freedom! 

Have a great day everybody!

Selfishness Keeps Me From Seeing The Truth

People can deceive me when my thinking is self-centered.

If I’m paying more attention to me than you, I will miss all the signs that tell me whether or not you are telling me the truth.

Everyday, many times each day, I try to remind myself that helping others is the most important thing to do in life.

And the best way to help others is to pay attention to them, which can only be done by paying less attention to myself.

The goal for today: ask God to help me not be selfish… because I can’t help you, if all I’m thinking about is me!

Have a great day everybody!

Clear, Concise & Consciously Aware

My problems are the result of selfishness, dishonesty resentment & fear.

My solutions are the result of Selflessness, Honesty, Love & Purity.

All life is a paradox!

I can’t help myself, except by helping others…

Admitting that I’ve lied, is Honest…

The only way to stop hate, is with Love…

Fear will cause the things I’m most afraid to happen.

The goal for today: understand the paradox, live in reality & experience Life the way it was intended to be… be clear, concise & consciously aware!

Have a great day everybody!